"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hey DJ's, how's it going?

VeryBadGirl

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I was slacking off at work and realized that there was one site that I hadn't visited in awhile - sosuave.com.

I see that everything is nearly the same here - same lively debate - and you all are still getting all the hot chicks.

I'm still a "bad girl" and quite happy about it. Exciting news for me is that I am getting married to my guy in August.

Anyone remember me? Any old school DJ's still out there?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TyTe`EyEs

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Before my time.


Stay active...or don't. :D
 

Eternal

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Ah, older posters coming back...Such a joy.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by VeryBadGirl
I'm still a "bad girl" and quite happy about it. Exciting news for me is that I am getting married to my guy in August.
i dont remember you must be before my time here, all i can say is that, and i mean this in a light hearted joking kind of way, was it neccisery to mention that the person you are marying is a guy :p i guess you could be gay, but are gay mariges even allowed?

P.S take me with you on your honeymoon if your going somewhere nice, havent been abroad for ages!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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tactic

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congratulations
 
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