"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Here's the Deal...

troubles1902

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I think i've realized what the deal is, to really be popular, you shouldn't care whether you become so.
Starting next week, I'm going to try to become really outgoing, doing lotsa really crazy ish-yash.
I thought reading SoSuave.net would help me approach any girl I may want.
I've realized I still care about what they think, I still care what anyone thinks of me.
F*ck them other fools, I need to live for me, this is my life. This belongs to me.
Besides what does them thinking bout me affect me.
I used to look at certain people and say " I wish I was him"
F*ck that. I'm going to better, funnier, smarter, more charismatic.
Just venting my feelings.
Hit me back.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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toddC

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yea man i used to be just liek that...but f*ck em you live for you and only you...GL to you.
 

Stratocaster

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I agree...you have to live for yourself, and be content with yourself in not doing what everyone else is doing (i.e. following a group around, usually led by one guy)

However, don't let it backfire. Don't openly bash someone to make a statement that you are going to be better than that person. Just tell yourself that stuff and people will realize it eventually.

Throughout high school I sometimes had that problem, I was over agressive and it kind of hurt my status at times. Just take everything in stride...be suave.
 
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