Here's the Deal...

[troubles1902]

I think i've realized what the deal is, to really be popular, you shouldn't care whether you become so.
Starting next week, I'm going to try to become really outgoing, doing lotsa really crazy ish-yash.
I thought reading SoSuave.net would help me approach any girl I may want.
I've realized I still care about what they think, I still care what anyone thinks of me.
F*ck them other fools, I need to live for me, this is my life. This belongs to me.
Besides what does them thinking bout me affect me.
I used to look at certain people and say " I wish I was him"
F*ck that. I'm going to better, funnier, smarter, more charismatic.
Just venting my feelings.
Hit me back.

 

[toddC]

yea man i used to be just liek that...but f*ck em you live for you and only you...GL to you.

 

[Stratocaster]

I agree...you have to live for yourself, and be content with yourself in not doing what everyone else is doing (i.e. following a group around, usually led by one guy)

However, don't let it backfire. Don't openly bash someone to make a statement that you are going to be better than that person. Just tell yourself that stuff and people will realize it eventually.

Throughout high school I sometimes had that problem, I was over agressive and it kind of hurt my status at times. Just take everything in stride...be suave.