"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Here's the Deal...

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I think i've realized what the deal is, to really be popular, you shouldn't care whether you become so.
Starting next week, I'm going to try to become really outgoing, doing lotsa really crazy ish-yash.
I thought reading SoSuave.net would help me approach any girl I may want.
I've realized I still care about what they think, I still care what anyone thinks of me.
F*ck them other fools, I need to live for me, this is my life. This belongs to me.
Besides what does them thinking bout me affect me.
I used to look at certain people and say " I wish I was him"
F*ck that. I'm going to better, funnier, smarter, more charismatic.
Just venting my feelings.
Hit me back.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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yea man i used to be just liek that...but f*ck em you live for you and only you...GL to you.
 
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I agree...you have to live for yourself, and be content with yourself in not doing what everyone else is doing (i.e. following a group around, usually led by one guy)

However, don't let it backfire. Don't openly bash someone to make a statement that you are going to be better than that person. Just tell yourself that stuff and people will realize it eventually.

Throughout high school I sometimes had that problem, I was over agressive and it kind of hurt my status at times. Just take everything in stride...be suave.
 
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