"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think i've realized what the deal is, to really be popular, you shouldn't care whether you become so.
Starting next week, I'm going to try to become really outgoing, doing lotsa really crazy ish-yash.
I thought reading SoSuave.net would help me approach any girl I may want.
I've realized I still care about what they think, I still care what anyone thinks of me.
F*ck them other fools, I need to live for me, this is my life. This belongs to me.
Besides what does them thinking bout me affect me.
I used to look at certain people and say " I wish I was him"
F*ck that. I'm going to better, funnier, smarter, more charismatic.
Just venting my feelings.
Hit me back.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yea man i used to be just liek that...but f*ck em you live for you and only you...GL to you.
 
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I agree...you have to live for yourself, and be content with yourself in not doing what everyone else is doing (i.e. following a group around, usually led by one guy)

However, don't let it backfire. Don't openly bash someone to make a statement that you are going to be better than that person. Just tell yourself that stuff and people will realize it eventually.

Throughout high school I sometimes had that problem, I was over agressive and it kind of hurt my status at times. Just take everything in stride...be suave.
 
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