Ok so you guys remember me asking if this girl was attracted to me because she looked and smiled at me, here is a follow up report on recent events. I asked one of my fairly popular friends if he knew who she was, and infact he did. And infact he started talking to her online about me, and she was attracted to me. So we talked the next time we saw each other, that is until I found out she had a boyfriend, so I backed off, and explored other options. So we didn't really talk a whole lot, just Hi when I saw her. Then a few days later, she told me her and her boyfriend broke up. So now I was ready to move in. We talked after class, and she was telling me how bad her bf was to her, and when I had to go in a different direction, she gave me a hug. So then, the next day, I was playing football with some of my friends, and we walked into the middle school football game. She was there, but I didn't know, and so when I was leaving, she called me over, gave me a BIG hug, and rubbed my back. So talked for a little while, and she wanted me to stay there, but I had to go, I was soo pissed I had to go. then the next day, she barely talked to me, instead she talked to some other guy, maybe she's trying to make me jealous? What do you guys think I should do next?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Heres my current situation
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