"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WOW1826

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I read over and over about how you want to change your life and you're starting by reading these forums. That's great and everything, but nothing works better than DOING. Instead of sitting there reading, go out. Doesn't matter if you plan on sarging. You should though but that's besides the point.

And if you're starting at ground zero (no friends, no social life). Get an excuse to get out of the house.(Go grocery shopping, play bball at the local court, whatever)

I'm sure there are tons of posts like this but im kinda pissed.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LikRetsam

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I care.
 

Mission

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How profound...

--Mission
 
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