"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Here's a scenario......

xenopus

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Previously I posted this on another thread...it's something for you guys to ponder over....

My ex-girlfriend has this good guy friend who gives her missed calls virtually everyday. Missed calls as in just one or two rings and that's it. No talking at all (at least I never heard them talking)

Naturally, I asked her about this and she tells me they're only good friends, and nothing else. It did make me irritated on numerous occasions and ask her questions, because these missed calls happen quite often when I'm with her.

So, she went back to Spain for holidays (she's Spanish) and I asked her if she met up with this good guy friend of hers. They live in the same town. She told me no . I found this really strange - for a guy friend to be giving her missed calls everyday and not meeting up for a round of coffee or something. Perhaps they did; maybe she didn't tell me this because she didn't want me to get worried or paranoid- god knows.

I did have suspicions that she may well be cheating on me. But I tried to look on the positive side- that she was phoning me almost everyday(long distance !) , telling me that she loved me, wants to come and live with me, communicating online almost everyday etc.

But you just never know women, ....she could well be having someone on the side.


What do you guys make of this?


Xenopus
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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squirrels

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Originally posted by xenopus
because these missed calls happen quite often when I'm with her.
The question of the hour is...does she "miss" these calls when you're not around? :eek:

Two possibilities:

1) This guy is chumping all over her and she's completely friend-zoned him, but since he calls every day she figures she can still use him as a friend.

2) You're being had.

I can't say.
 

am4591

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If she's your ex-girlfriend, why are you still seeing her anyway?
 

xenopus

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No, i'm not seeing her anymore. Totally cut off contact.
 
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