"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Here We Go

TyGiligan

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Whats up guys. I seen where the norweigan guy started his own thing so this is my own self improvement journal/field report. For now I'm gonna focus on tryin new things everyday and building up numbers.

Little Background Info: 19, college sophomore, Never consistent with the females, No real direction in life.

My Goals Today:

  1. NEW THING: Go to the Pet store and play with some spiders, Im absolutely terrified of them.
    Trade In my old clothes and get some new ones
    Finish All my spanish work
    I work today so lets try to start savin some money
    Meet with an advisor to get some new classes
    Ill start the DJ BootCamp too. Gonna get 50 hi's before next wednesday

Get ready Norwegian Man, gonna steal yer girls. :p
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TyGiligan

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Thank you sir. One more question. Do yall think the DJ bootcamp is the best way to get good with women. Or do yall have other good options.
 

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Sounds like a good start. Work on getting girls first, then work on getting the good ones.
 

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TyGiligan said:
Thank you sir. One more question. Do yall think the DJ bootcamp is the best way to get good with women. Or do yall have other good options.
You go out in the world and you experiment. See what works and doesn't work.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Experience

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TyGiligan said:
Thank you sir. One more question. Do yall think the DJ bootcamp is the best way to get good with women. Or do yall have other good options.
The best way to get good with women is to get good with yourself first.
Work on anything that you fear, just like the spiders.
If you fear saying hi to strangers, work on saying hi till you don't think twice.
Then if you still fear saying hi to women specifically, work on saying hi till you don't think twice.
Do this for everything that you fear and you'll find yourself in a whole different mindset.

You may also say to yourself, 'if I can face spiders, I can face women'.
 

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thanks guys I appreciate it. I'm going today to do the spider thing since it was closed for the holidays lol. so goals for today are:
  • Deposit money in the Bank today
  • Finally play with the Spiders
  • Say hi to some women, damn I havent started anything in this area
  • Finish some Biology Lab Homework
 
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