"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Here We Go

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Whats up guys. I seen where the norweigan guy started his own thing so this is my own self improvement journal/field report. For now I'm gonna focus on tryin new things everyday and building up numbers.

Little Background Info: 19, college sophomore, Never consistent with the females, No real direction in life.

My Goals Today:

  1. NEW THING: Go to the Pet store and play with some spiders, Im absolutely terrified of them.
    Trade In my old clothes and get some new ones
    Finish All my spanish work
    I work today so lets try to start savin some money
    Meet with an advisor to get some new classes
    Ill start the DJ BootCamp too. Gonna get 50 hi's before next wednesday

Get ready Norwegian Man, gonna steal yer girls. :p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thank you sir. One more question. Do yall think the DJ bootcamp is the best way to get good with women. Or do yall have other good options.
 

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Sounds like a good start. Work on getting girls first, then work on getting the good ones.
 

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TyGiligan said:
Thank you sir. One more question. Do yall think the DJ bootcamp is the best way to get good with women. Or do yall have other good options.
You go out in the world and you experiment. See what works and doesn't work.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Experience

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TyGiligan said:
Thank you sir. One more question. Do yall think the DJ bootcamp is the best way to get good with women. Or do yall have other good options.
The best way to get good with women is to get good with yourself first.
Work on anything that you fear, just like the spiders.
If you fear saying hi to strangers, work on saying hi till you don't think twice.
Then if you still fear saying hi to women specifically, work on saying hi till you don't think twice.
Do this for everything that you fear and you'll find yourself in a whole different mindset.

You may also say to yourself, 'if I can face spiders, I can face women'.
 

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thanks guys I appreciate it. I'm going today to do the spider thing since it was closed for the holidays lol. so goals for today are:
  • Deposit money in the Bank today
  • Finally play with the Spiders
  • Say hi to some women, damn I havent started anything in this area
  • Finish some Biology Lab Homework
 
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