"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Whats up guys. I seen where the norweigan guy started his own thing so this is my own self improvement journal/field report. For now I'm gonna focus on tryin new things everyday and building up numbers.

Little Background Info: 19, college sophomore, Never consistent with the females, No real direction in life.

My Goals Today:

  1. NEW THING: Go to the Pet store and play with some spiders, Im absolutely terrified of them.
    Trade In my old clothes and get some new ones
    Finish All my spanish work
    I work today so lets try to start savin some money
    Meet with an advisor to get some new classes
    Ill start the DJ BootCamp too. Gonna get 50 hi's before next wednesday

Get ready Norwegian Man, gonna steal yer girls. :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Thank you sir. One more question. Do yall think the DJ bootcamp is the best way to get good with women. Or do yall have other good options.
 
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Sounds like a good start. Work on getting girls first, then work on getting the good ones.
 
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TyGiligan said:
Thank you sir. One more question. Do yall think the DJ bootcamp is the best way to get good with women. Or do yall have other good options.
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You go out in the world and you experiment. See what works and doesn't work.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TyGiligan said:
Thank you sir. One more question. Do yall think the DJ bootcamp is the best way to get good with women. Or do yall have other good options.
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The best way to get good with women is to get good with yourself first.
Work on anything that you fear, just like the spiders.
If you fear saying hi to strangers, work on saying hi till you don't think twice.
Then if you still fear saying hi to women specifically, work on saying hi till you don't think twice.
Do this for everything that you fear and you'll find yourself in a whole different mindset.

You may also say to yourself, 'if I can face spiders, I can face women'.
 
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thanks guys I appreciate it. I'm going today to do the spider thing since it was closed for the holidays lol. so goals for today are:
  • Deposit money in the Bank today
  • Finally play with the Spiders
  • Say hi to some women, damn I havent started anything in this area
  • Finish some Biology Lab Homework
 
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