"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Here on American soil, back to being a dateless wonder

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Here are my matches on Tinder, I can easily get a 100 plus women wanting to date me there in South East Asia. But when I got here in America I barely got three matches, pretty low numbers if you ask me lol. Oh well, I’m spending the next couple of Holidays out here and I intend to spend it with my homies and buddies at a cigar pub getting a few drinks on….or I can enjoy being shot down by cute Latina women at the mall? Which seems more enjoyable to you? I’ll take the former lol.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't understand why you even bother when nothing is going to happen in the bedroom.

Why are you looking on Tinder for women who want to fvck when you aren't going to?

I mean it would be like going to a hardware store to try and go grocery shopping. It makes absolutely no sense.

You claim you are looking for one thing but then you continue to pursue avenues that don't have any of what you are looking for.

Can you explain how any of this makes sense? I'm sure I am not the only one on this forum who is thinking this.
 

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Not all women there just wants to screw. Some are after relationships and some of those women happens to be Christian, those are the women I’m after…..Plus it doesn’t hurt just to go out and make some platonic female friends, who knows…maybe they’ll introduce you to their friends.
 

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Not all women there just wants to screw. Some are after relationships and some of those women happens to be Christian, those are the women I’m after…..Plus it doesn’t hurt just to go out and make some platonic female friends, who knows…maybe they’ll introduce you to their friends.
Aren't they all catholic down there? The "christian" ones on Tinder could be spurned alpha-widows using their religiousity to play hard to get.

There's always sarging the Riverwalk with a fistful of churros too.
 

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Here are my matches on Tinder, I can easily get a 100 plus women wanting to date me there in South East Asia. But when I got here in America I barely got three matches, pretty low numbers if you ask me lol. Oh well, I’m spending the next couple of Holidays out here and I intend to spend it with my homies and buddies at a cigar pub getting a few drinks on….or I can enjoy being shot down by cute Latina women at the mall? Which seems more enjoyable to you? I’ll take the former lol.
I've considered, since the last Millennium, the USA as basically being without dateable women.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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10 bucks says Bianca has a resting b1tch face.
 
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