"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Okay, here it is, short and sweet.

I'm in year 12 and I really like this girl in a few of my classes, except shes one of the more 'popular' people and I'm the typical 'nice guy' who never gets the girl in the end, unless its a C-list Hugh Grant movie. I'm on the larger side which probably doesn't help... :D . I do work out, for muscle development though, not weight loss. I'm pretty powerhouse on the muscle side, but it hasn't really helped my size :p .

I've got her msn and stuff, I talk to her a little on there, but in person I can't, let alone asking for a # and maybe even going somewhere.

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thanks!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Read the DJ bible and David DeAngelo. When you're done with that, then you can start askin questions.

But just so you don't get hard feelings, i'll give you some advice. First, get confident. Second, don't buy into this "Nice Guy" crap. Like you said, nice guys get the girl in the end, but you want a girl now. And if you want the girl now, you can't be a wuss. But just because i said that, doesn't mean you have to turn into a d!ck. Just don't be a wuss. And read what i told you to read!
 
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Are they books, or are they things on this forum?
Sorry...hahaha.
 
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Fck her, focus on getting YOU to be the best you you can be (thats alot of you's).
 
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WesCottII said:
Fck her, focus on getting YOU to be the best you you can be (thats alot of you's).
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Yeah I've tried adopting that a few times, hasn't worked particularly well ;) .

Thanks for the suggestions, any more?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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work on confidence and sense of humor. they definitely matter more than bein pudgy or whatver. as hard as it is for guys to comprehend, i've learned that chicks are waaaay less shallow than us. while the first thing that both sexes look at IS appearance, its way easier for an ugly guy to get a hot girl than a ugly girl to get an attractive guy. it is all about attraction like david deangelo, i think, says. you can create that by being funny and confident, sometimes overly so.
 
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you're lucky you get to start so young.

sounds like you have your physical appearence down, so you've got to work on that confidence!

If you think of doing something, then be like "I shouldn't do that" or "I wouldn't know what to do" or whatever excuse you may have.. thats not nice, I might get in trouble...

Screw it and do it :p

Here are some basic things to use...

C+F - very effective and probably the most used technique.. work your humor
negs - don't think you're going to hurt someone's feelings or anything.. just neg hit girls jokingly, and it'll work well
DHV - meaning you are The Man, and she is some woman. (you > her)

it may be a little hard at first.. but work on your confidence by talking to more girls and acting like you're the prize to be won, NOT flattering or making them seem like you're really interested.

DONT FOCUS ON ONLY ONE GIRL
she'll come once you get them all.


http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
here's the bible if you haven't found it, I suggest reading Steps 1 and 2 first then moving on if you have alot of time to read.

Self confidence is key!
now go get em ;)
 
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Reframing yourself as the prize works like a goddamn CHARM. You will be surprised.
 
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