"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Okay, here it is, short and sweet.

I'm in year 12 and I really like this girl in a few of my classes, except shes one of the more 'popular' people and I'm the typical 'nice guy' who never gets the girl in the end, unless its a C-list Hugh Grant movie. I'm on the larger side which probably doesn't help... :D . I do work out, for muscle development though, not weight loss. I'm pretty powerhouse on the muscle side, but it hasn't really helped my size :p .

I've got her msn and stuff, I talk to her a little on there, but in person I can't, let alone asking for a # and maybe even going somewhere.

Any tips?
thanks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Read the DJ bible and David DeAngelo. When you're done with that, then you can start askin questions.

But just so you don't get hard feelings, i'll give you some advice. First, get confident. Second, don't buy into this "Nice Guy" crap. Like you said, nice guys get the girl in the end, but you want a girl now. And if you want the girl now, you can't be a wuss. But just because i said that, doesn't mean you have to turn into a d!ck. Just don't be a wuss. And read what i told you to read!
 
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Are they books, or are they things on this forum?
Sorry...hahaha.
 
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Fck her, focus on getting YOU to be the best you you can be (thats alot of you's).
 
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WesCottII said:
Fck her, focus on getting YOU to be the best you you can be (thats alot of you's).
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Yeah I've tried adopting that a few times, hasn't worked particularly well ;) .

Thanks for the suggestions, any more?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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work on confidence and sense of humor. they definitely matter more than bein pudgy or whatver. as hard as it is for guys to comprehend, i've learned that chicks are waaaay less shallow than us. while the first thing that both sexes look at IS appearance, its way easier for an ugly guy to get a hot girl than a ugly girl to get an attractive guy. it is all about attraction like david deangelo, i think, says. you can create that by being funny and confident, sometimes overly so.
 
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you're lucky you get to start so young.

sounds like you have your physical appearence down, so you've got to work on that confidence!

If you think of doing something, then be like "I shouldn't do that" or "I wouldn't know what to do" or whatever excuse you may have.. thats not nice, I might get in trouble...

Screw it and do it :p

Here are some basic things to use...

C+F - very effective and probably the most used technique.. work your humor
negs - don't think you're going to hurt someone's feelings or anything.. just neg hit girls jokingly, and it'll work well
DHV - meaning you are The Man, and she is some woman. (you > her)

it may be a little hard at first.. but work on your confidence by talking to more girls and acting like you're the prize to be won, NOT flattering or making them seem like you're really interested.

DONT FOCUS ON ONLY ONE GIRL
she'll come once you get them all.


http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/
here's the bible if you haven't found it, I suggest reading Steps 1 and 2 first then moving on if you have alot of time to read.

Self confidence is key!
now go get em ;)
 
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Reframing yourself as the prize works like a goddamn CHARM. You will be surprised.
 
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