"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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whammy03

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Hey everybody,

I'm new to all of this, and I can't really say that I am good with women, but of course that is exactly why I came to you guys. I could use some advice, anything would help.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PDubb75

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Welcome to the forum.

The only advice I can really give without knowing your specific problems is to start off by reading the DJ Bible. You can find it in the bottom left corner of this page.

Also, use the Search function to look for any specific situations you have questions with, and start a thread to ask something more unique to you.

The other thing I can give advice on. Try to understand why people here are giving you the advice they give you. Not only will that help you learn, but it's also important to know that not everything here should be taken as fact. You are gonna need to learn what is good advice, and what can work for you.
 
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PDubb, you forgot one thing...

TAKE ACTION! Don't sit around constantly reading sh!t on this forum. Go outside and fvckin' practice this sh!t!!

You'll learn 7 times faster if you try and fail, than if you sit at home reading. You'll learn 11 times faster if you try and succeed. Confidence build competence.

TRY AND FAIL!! Only then will you walk with the masters my dear noobish friend.

NOW GO, READ AND INTERNALIZE THIS NEW INFORMATION. Then step forth into the realm of experience.
 
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PDubb75

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Diaforetikos said:
PDubb, you forgot one thing...

TAKE ACTION! Don't sit around constantly reading sh!t on this forum. Go outside and fvckin' practice this sh!t!!

You'll learn 7 times faster if you try and fail, than if you sit at home reading. You'll learn 11 times faster if you try and succeed. Confidence build competence.

TRY AND FAIL!! Only then will you walk with the masters my dear noobish friend.

NOW GO, READ AND INTERNALIZE THIS NEW INFORMATION. Then step forth into the realm of experience.
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I sure did forget one thing! One major thing... Thanks for adding that on.
 
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