"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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whammy03

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Hey everybody,

I'm new to all of this, and I can't really say that I am good with women, but of course that is exactly why I came to you guys. I could use some advice, anything would help.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PDubb75

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Welcome to the forum.

The only advice I can really give without knowing your specific problems is to start off by reading the DJ Bible. You can find it in the bottom left corner of this page.

Also, use the Search function to look for any specific situations you have questions with, and start a thread to ask something more unique to you.

The other thing I can give advice on. Try to understand why people here are giving you the advice they give you. Not only will that help you learn, but it's also important to know that not everything here should be taken as fact. You are gonna need to learn what is good advice, and what can work for you.
 
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Diaforetikos

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PDubb, you forgot one thing...

TAKE ACTION! Don't sit around constantly reading sh!t on this forum. Go outside and fvckin' practice this sh!t!!

You'll learn 7 times faster if you try and fail, than if you sit at home reading. You'll learn 11 times faster if you try and succeed. Confidence build competence.

TRY AND FAIL!! Only then will you walk with the masters my dear noobish friend.

NOW GO, READ AND INTERNALIZE THIS NEW INFORMATION. Then step forth into the realm of experience.
 
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PDubb75

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Diaforetikos said:
PDubb, you forgot one thing...

TAKE ACTION! Don't sit around constantly reading sh!t on this forum. Go outside and fvckin' practice this sh!t!!

You'll learn 7 times faster if you try and fail, than if you sit at home reading. You'll learn 11 times faster if you try and succeed. Confidence build competence.

TRY AND FAIL!! Only then will you walk with the masters my dear noobish friend.

NOW GO, READ AND INTERNALIZE THIS NEW INFORMATION. Then step forth into the realm of experience.
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I sure did forget one thing! One major thing... Thanks for adding that on.
 
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