"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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whammy03

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Hey everybody,

I'm new to all of this, and I can't really say that I am good with women, but of course that is exactly why I came to you guys. I could use some advice, anything would help.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PDubb75

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Welcome to the forum.

The only advice I can really give without knowing your specific problems is to start off by reading the DJ Bible. You can find it in the bottom left corner of this page.

Also, use the Search function to look for any specific situations you have questions with, and start a thread to ask something more unique to you.

The other thing I can give advice on. Try to understand why people here are giving you the advice they give you. Not only will that help you learn, but it's also important to know that not everything here should be taken as fact. You are gonna need to learn what is good advice, and what can work for you.
 
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PDubb, you forgot one thing...

TAKE ACTION! Don't sit around constantly reading sh!t on this forum. Go outside and fvckin' practice this sh!t!!

You'll learn 7 times faster if you try and fail, than if you sit at home reading. You'll learn 11 times faster if you try and succeed. Confidence build competence.

TRY AND FAIL!! Only then will you walk with the masters my dear noobish friend.

NOW GO, READ AND INTERNALIZE THIS NEW INFORMATION. Then step forth into the realm of experience.
 
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PDubb75

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Diaforetikos said:
PDubb, you forgot one thing...

TAKE ACTION! Don't sit around constantly reading sh!t on this forum. Go outside and fvckin' practice this sh!t!!

You'll learn 7 times faster if you try and fail, than if you sit at home reading. You'll learn 11 times faster if you try and succeed. Confidence build competence.

TRY AND FAIL!! Only then will you walk with the masters my dear noobish friend.

NOW GO, READ AND INTERNALIZE THIS NEW INFORMATION. Then step forth into the realm of experience.
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I sure did forget one thing! One major thing... Thanks for adding that on.
 
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