"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Here a picture of a "curvy" girl back then

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Back to the 90s...





Playing Venus in the tv series hercules from 1995 to 1999...

I was looking for a picture showing what is currently defined as "curvy" but got too disgusted to post any, plus kids are probably watching this site.

Add this fact to the current dating market setting for the average man then wonder why mgtows are incresing in number and influence.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I Google image searched "curvy", most look sexy as hell, but there is a smaller number of round (to put it mildly) women among the pictures. I wouldn't say the mainstream definition has changed, you gotta stop listening to a vanishingly small (although very loudmouthed) minority of feminists. They can screech all day long, but at the end of the day nobody gives a fvck what they think.

MGTOW is also a relatively small group of the extreme counterpart to feminists. Although both groups appear large due to the connective magic of the internet and their ability to scream their opinions loud and clear at every opportunity they get.

I'm not a huge fan of any of the 2 movements, it's just unnecessary noise in a life that's complex enough as it is. Best way to fight feminism and other extreme points of view is to not give it the attention it so desperately tries to grab, move along with life with no such clutter in your mind. But here we are spreading the message by talking about it and opposing it. Their only power is the power to grab attention, without attention they die out. Any attention, negative or positive just further feeds their ridiculous cause.
 

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Back to the 90s...





Playing Venus in the tv series hercules from 1995 to 1999...

I was looking for a picture showing what is currently defined as "curvy" but got too disgusted to post any, plus kids are probably watching this site.

Add this fact to the current dating market setting for the average man then wonder why mgtows are incresing in number and influence.
I would definitely tap that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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When I was growing up, "curvy" was simply a description of the female body, it wasn't a weight class.
Now it means fat.
 

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That's not curvy by today's standards.
She's more on the athletic or fit category.
 

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Curvy still basically means the same thing, nobody buys delusional fatties calling themselves curvy
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Curvy still basically means the same thing, nobody buys delusional fatties calling themselves curvy
It's the feminine imperative being peddle to shape men's mindset. The young s€xy ones will smile fully well aware that once they grow old and fat there's a steady stream of beta's ever ready to take over.

Vast sheep's of men willing to provide security...
 

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Some bros (like me) fancy BBWs. It is a fetish, granted, but there is nothing wrong with it. Not a perversion or anything like that.

If we liked anal sex with other guys the Establishment would come out to put the label LBTQwhatever and turn us into civic heroes.
 

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When I was growing up, "curvy" was simply a description of the female body, it wasn't a weight class.
Now it means fat.
I can kinda see how they could twist it though. You can't be super skinny and have beautiful curves, but they kinda stretch the opposite too far (pun intended).
 

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I can kinda see how they could twist it though. You can't be super skinny and have beautiful curves, but they kinda stretch the opposite too far (pun intended).
Well, they've twisted it, so you must be right.

There used to be a joke sign (sort of like what would be a meme today). It said "Dangerous curves ahead", and there would be an outline of a sexy female's body. But definitely not fat.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you're toned and curvy you're not lazy Selma Hayek is curvy, Kim Kardashian it's feminine to be curvy. If you like skinny women it's suspect imo
 

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she's not curvy
Looks like curves to me.
Although I was never a big Cindy Crawford fan.
Nothing wrong with her body, I just never cared for "beauty marks".
 

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curvy is basically supposed to be big tits, ass, thighs, etc. On a girl that isn't fat (so no fat rolls, double chin, big gut, etc.)
 

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curvy is basically supposed to be big tits, ass, thighs, etc. On a girl that isn't fat (so no fat rolls, double chin, big gut, etc.)
All girls are curvy, unless they have a shape like a boy.
At least by the old definition of curvy.
The new definition just means obese.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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