"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Here a picture of a "curvy" girl back then

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Back to the 90s...





Playing Venus in the tv series hercules from 1995 to 1999...

I was looking for a picture showing what is currently defined as "curvy" but got too disgusted to post any, plus kids are probably watching this site.

Add this fact to the current dating market setting for the average man then wonder why mgtows are incresing in number and influence.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I Google image searched "curvy", most look sexy as hell, but there is a smaller number of round (to put it mildly) women among the pictures. I wouldn't say the mainstream definition has changed, you gotta stop listening to a vanishingly small (although very loudmouthed) minority of feminists. They can screech all day long, but at the end of the day nobody gives a fvck what they think.

MGTOW is also a relatively small group of the extreme counterpart to feminists. Although both groups appear large due to the connective magic of the internet and their ability to scream their opinions loud and clear at every opportunity they get.

I'm not a huge fan of any of the 2 movements, it's just unnecessary noise in a life that's complex enough as it is. Best way to fight feminism and other extreme points of view is to not give it the attention it so desperately tries to grab, move along with life with no such clutter in your mind. But here we are spreading the message by talking about it and opposing it. Their only power is the power to grab attention, without attention they die out. Any attention, negative or positive just further feeds their ridiculous cause.
 

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Back to the 90s...





Playing Venus in the tv series hercules from 1995 to 1999...

I was looking for a picture showing what is currently defined as "curvy" but got too disgusted to post any, plus kids are probably watching this site.

Add this fact to the current dating market setting for the average man then wonder why mgtows are incresing in number and influence.
I would definitely tap that.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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When I was growing up, "curvy" was simply a description of the female body, it wasn't a weight class.
Now it means fat.
 

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That's not curvy by today's standards.
She's more on the athletic or fit category.
 

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Curvy still basically means the same thing, nobody buys delusional fatties calling themselves curvy
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Curvy still basically means the same thing, nobody buys delusional fatties calling themselves curvy
It's the feminine imperative being peddle to shape men's mindset. The young s€xy ones will smile fully well aware that once they grow old and fat there's a steady stream of beta's ever ready to take over.

Vast sheep's of men willing to provide security...
 

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Some bros (like me) fancy BBWs. It is a fetish, granted, but there is nothing wrong with it. Not a perversion or anything like that.

If we liked anal sex with other guys the Establishment would come out to put the label LBTQwhatever and turn us into civic heroes.
 

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When I was growing up, "curvy" was simply a description of the female body, it wasn't a weight class.
Now it means fat.
I can kinda see how they could twist it though. You can't be super skinny and have beautiful curves, but they kinda stretch the opposite too far (pun intended).
 

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I can kinda see how they could twist it though. You can't be super skinny and have beautiful curves, but they kinda stretch the opposite too far (pun intended).
Well, they've twisted it, so you must be right.

There used to be a joke sign (sort of like what would be a meme today). It said "Dangerous curves ahead", and there would be an outline of a sexy female's body. But definitely not fat.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you're toned and curvy you're not lazy Selma Hayek is curvy, Kim Kardashian it's feminine to be curvy. If you like skinny women it's suspect imo
 

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she's not curvy
Looks like curves to me.
Although I was never a big Cindy Crawford fan.
Nothing wrong with her body, I just never cared for "beauty marks".
 

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curvy is basically supposed to be big tits, ass, thighs, etc. On a girl that isn't fat (so no fat rolls, double chin, big gut, etc.)
 

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curvy is basically supposed to be big tits, ass, thighs, etc. On a girl that isn't fat (so no fat rolls, double chin, big gut, etc.)
All girls are curvy, unless they have a shape like a boy.
At least by the old definition of curvy.
The new definition just means obese.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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