"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Her shack or Your Palace

HighResurrection

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I know a good tool to use to get a girl back to your place is a prop, like a book or cool thing you have at your house.

how do you get a women to bring you back to her place?

I have this cool card game i wanna show you lets go to your place?

What would have a better success rate her place or yours in terms of a close.

does it matter if the girl is ready she will say yes to either?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mike32ct

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For a ONS, I've had way more success inviting her to my place rather than going to her place.

I've never been able to invite myself over to her place the first time. I think most women don't want you to know where they live right away in case you're a stalker.

As for the "excuse" to invite her over, it's not that critical. I usually just invite them to watch some tv or watch a movie. If she's DTF, you rarely have to turn the tv on.
 

goodfoot

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I don't take women to my place anymore if I don't know them well. I have had a couple incidents with women coming by unannounced, driving past to spy. I know that this has cost me some ONS.
 

sodbuster

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Invite them to your place to show them... a picture,the table you just refinished,whatever. Then sex "just happened" You want your place[your bed,condoms and no ex boyfriends will show up with the key she gave them]
 

Huffman

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Hm yeah and what if you'd rather go to her place (because your own flatmates are complaining :D)?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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