"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Her shack or Your Palace

HighResurrection

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I know a good tool to use to get a girl back to your place is a prop, like a book or cool thing you have at your house.

how do you get a women to bring you back to her place?

I have this cool card game i wanna show you lets go to your place?

What would have a better success rate her place or yours in terms of a close.

does it matter if the girl is ready she will say yes to either?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mike32ct

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For a ONS, I've had way more success inviting her to my place rather than going to her place.

I've never been able to invite myself over to her place the first time. I think most women don't want you to know where they live right away in case you're a stalker.

As for the "excuse" to invite her over, it's not that critical. I usually just invite them to watch some tv or watch a movie. If she's DTF, you rarely have to turn the tv on.
 

goodfoot

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I don't take women to my place anymore if I don't know them well. I have had a couple incidents with women coming by unannounced, driving past to spy. I know that this has cost me some ONS.
 

sodbuster

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Invite them to your place to show them... a picture,the table you just refinished,whatever. Then sex "just happened" You want your place[your bed,condoms and no ex boyfriends will show up with the key she gave them]
 

Huffman

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Hm yeah and what if you'd rather go to her place (because your own flatmates are complaining :D)?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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