Her Parents [LTR]

[wifehunter]

Just wondering, and thinking lately, about past relationships.

Any of you have a LTR where the parents ruined it for you?

Example: feminazi mothers

 

[El Payaso]

Yes. The example you gave. Feminazi mothers.

 

[l__i__l]

Yes however in my case it was an obsessively intrusive single mother.
I felt I was in a relationship with her daughter and her.

 

[GS750]

I had a short relationship with a girl a few years ago who had a fanatical control freak mother. It was obvious to me that this woman controlled the lives of her three kids as well as her husband. She filled this girls head with all kinds of nonsense and I was convinced that she had a lot to do with the end of things between us. I remember thinking this girl would be a lot better off if she could get out from under her mothers thumb, but that's her problem. Not mine.

 

[Muscle brain]

Yeah! Her Mother wanted to Bang With me. No Joke.
She was Hot 45, good looking Blonde and skinny.
I turn her down. Big Mistake after that Hell on Earth for my relationship.

 

[dude99]

Just wondering, and thinking lately, about past relationships.

Any of you have a LTR where the parents ruined it for you?

Example: feminazi mothers

Yes. Had a mother interfere because she hated men. She stood between all her daughters and their boyfriends. If the girl your dating is strong enough to stand buy you you can put the manging mother in her place. If the girl is under moms thumb it will never work.

 

[dude99]

Yes however in my case it was an obsessively intrusive single mother.
I felt I was in a relationship with her daughter and her.

In a way you were. Just not how you wanted.

 

[fastlife]

Yup, I've known several girls with immature, entitled mothers and absentee fathers who were ruined for a relationship with me a long time before I ever came into the picture.

The dynamic of a girl's relationship with her parents is the single most important predictor of her fitness for a LTR.

 

[wifehunter]

The dynamic of a girl's relationship with her parents is the single most important predictor of her fitness for a LTR.

Makes me think that knowing the parents before going exclusive, is mandatory! Could save a lot of grief.

 

[fastlife]

Makes me think that knowing the parents before going exclusive, is mandatory! Could save a lot of grief.

I don't think meeting them is even necessary. I just mention some things about my parents (usually the first or second night I meet a girl)--and they'll tell you everything you need to know.

Red flags to look out for:
-Absent dad (she probably sleeps with a lot of guys)
-A mom whose a user and who "she'll never be like" (she'll be just like her mother)
-A mentally unstable mom (watch out)
-A controlling mother (she'll be controlling)
-Abusive parents (obviously)
-If either mom or dad were habitual cheaters (if mom, she'll probably cheat on you; if dad, she'll probably go cold & avoidant at the first sign of real intimacy)
-A father who is weak, soft, or overly attentive (serial monogamist alert)
-Whether her parents had her at a very young age (high risk pregnancy alert)

None of these things immediately disqualify her, but I'm rarely surprised how things end.

 

[wifehunter]

I don't think meeting them is even necessary. I just mention some things about my parents (usually the first or second night I meet a girl)--and they'll tell you everything you need to know.

Red flags to look out for:
-Absent dad (she probably sleeps with a lot of guys)
-A mom whose a user and who "she'll never be like" (she'll be just like her mother)
-A mentally unstable mom (watch out)
-A controlling mother (she'll be controlling)
-Abusive parents (obviously)
-If either mom or dad were habitual cheaters (if mom, she'll probably cheat on you; if dad, she'll probably go cold & avoidant at the first sign of real intimacy)
-A father who is weak, soft, or overly attentive (serial monogamist alert)
-Whether her parents had her at a very young age (high risk pregnancy alert)

None of these things immediately disqualify her, but I'm rarely surprised how things end.

Thanks, that makes things easier!