Double_Diamonds
Don Juan
So I've been with this girl for a while, and last night she gave me a BJ in the car. Guys: it took 45 minutes and I still didn't come. I've never been easy to make come. But, I feel like I let her down haha. Any tips at all?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Her & I got sexual last night - I need help
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
next time fake it, and tell her you jerked it before you came to see her.
oh and next time try and make it more "pleasureble". sex isn't just a mechanical motion....there is more too it
oh and next time try and make it more "pleasureble". sex isn't just a mechanical motion....there is more too it
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
Next time have some glazed donuts in the car, and if it happens again, just pull you cack out of her mouth and flick a little glaze in her eye so she thinks you came.
Mind_Body_Soul
Senior Don Juan
That is the funniest sh1t. I was thinking you could just use warm yogurt.The Shocker said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
amen to that... I want a girl to give me head for 45 minutes. I don't care if I *** or not. lolRedux said:
Boschy
Senior Don Juan
Come, don't come. What does it matter? A sure way to make it a real problem is to worry about it. Just chill dude and enjoy her attentions.
I can last indefinitely during a BJ unless I've abstained for a week or more
To come on cue I fantasize, and sometimes weird thoughts like imagining it's our wedding night or that we're somewhere in public works better than T&A images. Sex is like that...different stuff works for different people.
Next time, get her to insert a finger up your back door and tickle your prostate gland.
I can last indefinitely during a BJ unless I've abstained for a week or more
To come on cue I fantasize, and sometimes weird thoughts like imagining it's our wedding night or that we're somewhere in public works better than T&A images. Sex is like that...different stuff works for different people.Next time, get her to insert a finger up your back door and tickle your prostate gland.
Double_Diamonds
Don Juan
I think I'll pass on the whole prostate gland thing for now...but thanks guys.