Double_Diamonds
Don Juan
So I've been with this girl for a while, and last night she gave me a BJ in the car. Guys: it took 45 minutes and I still didn't come. I've never been easy to make come. But, I feel like I let her down haha. Any tips at all?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Her & I got sexual last night - I need help
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spider_007
Master Don Juan
next time fake it, and tell her you jerked it before you came to see her.
oh and next time try and make it more "pleasureble". sex isn't just a mechanical motion....there is more too it
oh and next time try and make it more "pleasureble". sex isn't just a mechanical motion....there is more too it
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
Next time have some glazed donuts in the car, and if it happens again, just pull you cack out of her mouth and flick a little glaze in her eye so she thinks you came.
Mind_Body_Soul
Senior Don Juan
That is the funniest sh1t. I was thinking you could just use warm yogurt.The Shocker said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
amen to that... I want a girl to give me head for 45 minutes. I don't care if I *** or not. lolRedux said:
Boschy
Senior Don Juan
Come, don't come. What does it matter? A sure way to make it a real problem is to worry about it. Just chill dude and enjoy her attentions.
I can last indefinitely during a BJ unless I've abstained for a week or more
To come on cue I fantasize, and sometimes weird thoughts like imagining it's our wedding night or that we're somewhere in public works better than T&A images. Sex is like that...different stuff works for different people.
Next time, get her to insert a finger up your back door and tickle your prostate gland.
I can last indefinitely during a BJ unless I've abstained for a week or more
To come on cue I fantasize, and sometimes weird thoughts like imagining it's our wedding night or that we're somewhere in public works better than T&A images. Sex is like that...different stuff works for different people.Next time, get her to insert a finger up your back door and tickle your prostate gland.
Double_Diamonds
Don Juan
I think I'll pass on the whole prostate gland thing for now...but thanks guys.