Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Her & I got sexual last night - I need help

Double_Diamonds

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So I've been with this girl for a while, and last night she gave me a BJ in the car. Guys: it took 45 minutes and I still didn't come. I've never been easy to make come. But, I feel like I let her down haha. Any tips at all?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Redux

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Damn she is into you. WTF are you complaining about? I wish I had your problem!
 

spider_007

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next time fake it, and tell her you jerked it before you came to see her.


oh and next time try and make it more "pleasureble". sex isn't just a mechanical motion....there is more too it
 

The Shocker

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Next time have some glazed donuts in the car, and if it happens again, just pull you cack out of her mouth and flick a little glaze in her eye so she thinks you came.
 

Mind_Body_Soul

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The Shocker said:
Next time have some glazed donuts in the car, and if it happens again, just pull you cack out of her mouth and flick a little glaze in her eye so she thinks you came.
That is the funniest sh1t. I was thinking you could just use warm yogurt.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Paintballguy

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Redux said:
Damn she is into you. WTF are you complaining about? I wish I had your problem!
amen to that... I want a girl to give me head for 45 minutes. I don't care if I *** or not. lol
 

Boschy

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Come, don't come. What does it matter? A sure way to make it a real problem is to worry about it. Just chill dude and enjoy her attentions.

I can last indefinitely during a BJ unless I've abstained for a week or more :D To come on cue I fantasize, and sometimes weird thoughts like imagining it's our wedding night or that we're somewhere in public works better than T&A images. Sex is like that...different stuff works for different people.

Next time, get her to insert a finger up your back door and tickle your prostate gland.
 

ryannath

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^^Yeah, the tickling of the prostate does feel pretty damn good I must say lol. Try it sometime and you will cuum about 5 times harder than usual.
 

Double_Diamonds

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I think I'll pass on the whole prostate gland thing for now...but thanks guys.
 
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