“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Her Grandma is dying...

mtlwlu

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This girl I just started seeing, has a sick grandma who shes close to, and Im stuck in a rut, Im not sure if I should bother her and keep pushing for a date or just give her time and space? any thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Push her to the side and go date other chicks.

You don't want to begin a relationship close to a trauma like this or the girl may subconsciously begin to associate you with that horrible time in her life, resent you for it and then poof there goes your relationship and you are sh!t out of luck.

Also going forward with this drags you into the vortex of caretaker where no young guy should willingly put himself unless of course its part of his profession such as say a doctor, a priest/minister, clinical psychologist, hospice worker, etc.
 

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how long have you been seing her for?

are you exclusive?

have u had sex?

what is all this Nexting business...... its a similar attitude you had before kontroller, not letting other people drag you down and looking for the bad in them and reasons to move on.

Instead look for the good and be bringing her up. Everything is possible and this situation sounds like it can easily be solved if he actually likes the the girl.

p.s. this is the stuff that fills you up and gets you consistant.
 

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"what is all this Nexting business...... its a similar attitude you had before kontroller, not letting other people drag you down and looking for the bad in them and reasons to move on."

Its not "looking for the bad" in someone dude.

The "bad" is the current situation not the girl and the current and "bad" situation is right in front of his face, not something he "needs to look for" and he needs to move on to a better candidate whose not going through a traumatic event at the moment.

Its the smart and intelligent thing to do.

He's fortunate because its just the beginning of the getting to know you phase and he's presumably not that emotionally invested in the girl at all now which is the perfect time for exiting this undesireable scenario.

And besides I wasn't even advocating a total next but rather just for this guy to forget about her as in place her on the backburner and go deal with other plates.

When this chick feels good again she can then contact him indicating she is ready to begin the dating game once more.

Honestly I seriously wonder if you new guys ever think over a situation deeply before you post or if your mindset is just that AFC where you think putting yourself in unwinnable scenarios is a good idea?
 

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lol new guys,

it absoultely is looking for the bad, you are focusing on it.

4,000 posts? I think you need to get out in field more and perhaps live your life....... just a thought.

p.s. the smart intelligent thing sounds very robotic man, we have a thing called a soul too which you can fill up
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"lol new guys,

4,000 posts? I think you need to get out in field more and perhaps live your life....... just a thought."


4,000 posts?

Not quite yet but the ones I do have are a result of helping ungreatful dumbasses like yourself become better men.

Anyhow why don't you take your own advice and get off this forum completely and show me how its done chief?

You don't do that because like every other troll jagoff that comes here spouting worthless AFC advice you just want to run your mouth.

"p.s. the smart intelligent thing sounds very robotic man, we have a thing called a soul too which you can fill up"

Soul is just religious woo woo.

The smart intelligent thing is what smart and intelligent human beings do and they benefit from this behavior which is why a smart and intelligent person such as myself promotes such ways of carrying one's self.

And robotic? LOL, get the fvck out of here!

Next Level Game is where you belong with the rest of the lifetime AFC retards.

Its probably where you came from to begin with.

Another "fingerman" here with some covert trolling.

Very nice.

Hope you get a lot of e-high fives for it buddy. :crackup:

"we have a thing called a soul too which you can fill up"

Yeah maybe we'll take our "souls" over to the Shell station and fill em up hahaha you ridiculous troll retard!
 
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I just told her simply "Ill take you out sometime to get your mind off it" she told me back "as long as you can make me laugh, Im happy." Im going to avoid the texting or phoning for the weekend just to see if she responds back wondering what ive been up to.
 
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