"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Her girlfriend took her away...?

Baruch

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There was this girl at a party. We met before but only for a brief moment. But it seemed like she was interested the first time she met trying to qualify her to me by asking me to check out this one appartment she decorated for my friend.

At the party last night she came up to me and asks me to go have a drink with her at the bar. I accuse her of trying to take advantage of me. So we chat up at the bar and her friend comes up then another freind comes up so I say "Ill rap to yall later".

Later in the evening she comes up to me again and starts neg-hit me about my costume and a "fake" joint inside my bandana. We go on the balcony and smoke the "fake" joint. We were having a good time, alot of eye contact and kino. We head out to the dance floor and grind together...BUT then, her girlfriend comes up again and says she is leaving and takes her with her. I see them say bye to people and they head out to the door and leave.

Now what was that all about?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You should have made a move. I got ****blocked and was too much of a ***** to make the number close. Hope I'll change that tonight.
 

alphawolfx

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she wanted you on the balcony

should have kissed her

when a girl goes c&f on you, she wants you... badly

if you had kissed hr, she wouldn't have let her friend drag her away
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Baruch

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Originally posted by alphawolfx
she wanted you on the balcony

should have kissed her

when a girl goes c&f on you, she wants you... badly

if you had kissed hr, she wouldn't have let her friend drag her away
Ive isolated her by going on the balcony. I wanted to plant a kiss on her, but there was just to much talking between us so I took her to the dance floor and we when we started to dance and getting really close i was gonna kiss her, and thats when her friend butted in.

It wouldve been perfect to kiss her on the balcony, but we just didnt position ourselves in a way that a kiss would be natural.

what should i do next when i see her?
 

frivolousz21

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one thing Baruch **** Natural..who cares about natural

many times..ive just stopped in a convo and grabbed her and kissed her.


its the risk you take for the reward.
 

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i thought you meant you really liked her then found out she was a lesbian! thats happened to me before actually, i was dancing with this girl and we were chatting and stuff and then i asked her if she had a bf then she giggled and said, im sorry but im a lesbian! so embarassing!
 
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