Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Her girlfriend took her away...?

Baruch

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There was this girl at a party. We met before but only for a brief moment. But it seemed like she was interested the first time she met trying to qualify her to me by asking me to check out this one appartment she decorated for my friend.

At the party last night she came up to me and asks me to go have a drink with her at the bar. I accuse her of trying to take advantage of me. So we chat up at the bar and her friend comes up then another freind comes up so I say "Ill rap to yall later".

Later in the evening she comes up to me again and starts neg-hit me about my costume and a "fake" joint inside my bandana. We go on the balcony and smoke the "fake" joint. We were having a good time, alot of eye contact and kino. We head out to the dance floor and grind together...BUT then, her girlfriend comes up again and says she is leaving and takes her with her. I see them say bye to people and they head out to the door and leave.

Now what was that all about?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Reach

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You should have made a move. I got ****blocked and was too much of a ***** to make the number close. Hope I'll change that tonight.
 

alphawolfx

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she wanted you on the balcony

should have kissed her

when a girl goes c&f on you, she wants you... badly

if you had kissed hr, she wouldn't have let her friend drag her away
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Baruch

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Originally posted by alphawolfx
she wanted you on the balcony

should have kissed her

when a girl goes c&f on you, she wants you... badly

if you had kissed hr, she wouldn't have let her friend drag her away
Ive isolated her by going on the balcony. I wanted to plant a kiss on her, but there was just to much talking between us so I took her to the dance floor and we when we started to dance and getting really close i was gonna kiss her, and thats when her friend butted in.

It wouldve been perfect to kiss her on the balcony, but we just didnt position ourselves in a way that a kiss would be natural.

what should i do next when i see her?
 

frivolousz21

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one thing Baruch **** Natural..who cares about natural

many times..ive just stopped in a convo and grabbed her and kissed her.


its the risk you take for the reward.
 

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i thought you meant you really liked her then found out she was a lesbian! thats happened to me before actually, i was dancing with this girl and we were chatting and stuff and then i asked her if she had a bf then she giggled and said, im sorry but im a lesbian! so embarassing!
 
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