"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Her Friends...

Demodulate

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I am just curious to see what everyones thoughts are about a girls friends talking you up when you arent around..


Today I got a text from a girl saying that her friend told her she should get with me because she knows I will treat her right, and she can see by the way I act around her that I am really into her....

I just texted back, I payed her to say that..

but its almost like she wants me to admit it to her.

I am assuming its a positive to have the girls friends working for me, but I dont want to have to keep dodging the "do you like me?" questions...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Juan_Man

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It looks like a done deal. Congrats! :up:
 

DJDamage

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If her girlfriends are talking you up its a really good thing.

Chicks sometimes need an affirmation from other girls in their social groups to back up their decisions. They can talk about it for a long time, unlike us who can pretty much do it in a sentence or two:

Dude1: Hey what do you think of this girl? should I go for her?

Dude2: Yeah man she is hot.

Dude: Would you tap it?

Dude2: yeah i would tap it and if you don't then I will.
 
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