"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Demodulate

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I am just curious to see what everyones thoughts are about a girls friends talking you up when you arent around..


Today I got a text from a girl saying that her friend told her she should get with me because she knows I will treat her right, and she can see by the way I act around her that I am really into her....

I just texted back, I payed her to say that..

but its almost like she wants me to admit it to her.

I am assuming its a positive to have the girls friends working for me, but I dont want to have to keep dodging the "do you like me?" questions...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Juan_Man

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It looks like a done deal. Congrats! :up:
 
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DJDamage

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If her girlfriends are talking you up its a really good thing.

Chicks sometimes need an affirmation from other girls in their social groups to back up their decisions. They can talk about it for a long time, unlike us who can pretty much do it in a sentence or two:

Dude1: Hey what do you think of this girl? should I go for her?

Dude2: Yeah man she is hot.

Dude: Would you tap it?

Dude2: yeah i would tap it and if you don't then I will.
 
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