"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Demodulate

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I am just curious to see what everyones thoughts are about a girls friends talking you up when you arent around..


Today I got a text from a girl saying that her friend told her she should get with me because she knows I will treat her right, and she can see by the way I act around her that I am really into her....

I just texted back, I payed her to say that..

but its almost like she wants me to admit it to her.

I am assuming its a positive to have the girls friends working for me, but I dont want to have to keep dodging the "do you like me?" questions...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Juan_Man

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It looks like a done deal. Congrats! :up:
 
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DJDamage

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If her girlfriends are talking you up its a really good thing.

Chicks sometimes need an affirmation from other girls in their social groups to back up their decisions. They can talk about it for a long time, unlike us who can pretty much do it in a sentence or two:

Dude1: Hey what do you think of this girl? should I go for her?

Dude2: Yeah man she is hot.

Dude: Would you tap it?

Dude2: yeah i would tap it and if you don't then I will.
 
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