Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How do i be a better man?djSlvt said:You don't have skills to keep your relationship going. You reek with insecurity. It won't last long unless you change.
You are a beta male at this point in your life. You don't know what to do, you're not a leader. Your relationship will last until she finds a guy that can lead. She'll trade a sissy that don't know what to do for a guy that is confident and knows what he's doing, without giving much thought to it.
The best advice you can possibly get is: DO NOT CONCENTRATE ON YOUR GIRLFRIEND.
Look what you doing, she means soooo much to you, that here you are, trying to learn a thing or two, so that you can KEEP her forever. That is wrong.
You can't keep a person with you forever, that's hostage taking. If she wants you, she'll stay with you, by her own will. Understand?
Instead of concetrating on keeping her as your hostage, concentrate on becoming a better man. Go ahead, and ask us, how to become a better men.
I won't tell you until you ask.
P.S. The advice you get from us, is useless to you, because being Don Juan is in your head. You can't fake by doing things or applying techniques, no such thing. Everything we tell you is to transform YOU.
the "rules" are the same as if it was October 14th with the moon in the east, the temperature at 56 degrees, tide is in, and slight volcanic activity from the west.inzone50 said:What are the rules here?
She invites you to go hang out with her friends.
Do you get to know them, or steer clear?
By the way its my g/f and we are a couple and more than dating. Its exclusive.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.