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inzone50

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What are the rules here?

She invites you to go hang out with her friends.

Do you get to know them, or steer clear?


By the way its my g/f and we are a couple and more than dating. Its exclusive.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

djSlvt

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You don't have skills to keep your relationship going. You reek with insecurity. It won't last long unless you change.


You are a beta male at this point in your life. You don't know what to do, you're not a leader. Your relationship will last until she finds a guy that can lead. She'll trade a sissy that don't know what to do for a guy that is confident and knows what he's doing, without giving much thought to it.


The best advice you can possibly get is: DO NOT CONCENTRATE ON YOUR GIRLFRIEND.


Look what you doing, she means soooo much to you, that here you are, trying to learn a thing or two, so that you can KEEP her forever. That is wrong.


You can't keep a person with you forever, that's hostage taking. If she wants you, she'll stay with you, by her own will. Understand?



Instead of concetrating on keeping her as your hostage, concentrate on becoming a better man. Go ahead, and ask us, how to become a better men.

I won't tell you until you ask.







P.S. The advice you get from us, is useless to you, because being Don Juan is in your head. You can't fake by doing things or applying techniques, no such thing. Everything we tell you is to transform YOU.
 

inzone50

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djSlvt said:
You don't have skills to keep your relationship going. You reek with insecurity. It won't last long unless you change.


You are a beta male at this point in your life. You don't know what to do, you're not a leader. Your relationship will last until she finds a guy that can lead. She'll trade a sissy that don't know what to do for a guy that is confident and knows what he's doing, without giving much thought to it.


The best advice you can possibly get is: DO NOT CONCENTRATE ON YOUR GIRLFRIEND.


Look what you doing, she means soooo much to you, that here you are, trying to learn a thing or two, so that you can KEEP her forever. That is wrong.


You can't keep a person with you forever, that's hostage taking. If she wants you, she'll stay with you, by her own will. Understand?



Instead of concetrating on keeping her as your hostage, concentrate on becoming a better man. Go ahead, and ask us, how to become a better men.

I won't tell you until you ask.







P.S. The advice you get from us, is useless to you, because being Don Juan is in your head. You can't fake by doing things or applying techniques, no such thing. Everything we tell you is to transform YOU.
How do i be a better man?
 

theunflushables

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Get to know them. If you are serious and exclusive, you'll have to get to know them sooner or later.
 

Crank_It_Up

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inzone50 said:
What are the rules here?

She invites you to go hang out with her friends.

Do you get to know them, or steer clear?


By the way its my g/f and we are a couple and more than dating. Its exclusive.
the "rules" are the same as if it was October 14th with the moon in the east, the temperature at 56 degrees, tide is in, and slight volcanic activity from the west.

seriously, the "rules" are what you make them... do whatever the heck you wanna do. If you have to take a dump, do you ask the rules first? Trust yourself, believe in yourself, like yourself, get some confidence in yourself.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

djSlvt

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Study the game, and practice it. Hit the gym. Read a book. Take a dance lesson. Do something that makes you a better person.


From here, DJ Bible.
 
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