"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
djSlvt
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You are a beta male at this point in your life. You don't know what to do, you're not a leader. Your relationship will last until she finds a guy that can lead. She'll trade a sissy that don't know what to do for a guy that is confident and knows what he's doing, without giving much thought to it.
The best advice you can possibly get is: DO NOT CONCENTRATE ON YOUR GIRLFRIEND.
Look what you doing, she means soooo much to you, that here you are, trying to learn a thing or two, so that you can KEEP her forever. That is wrong.
You can't keep a person with you forever, that's hostage taking. If she wants you, she'll stay with you, by her own will. Understand?
Instead of concetrating on keeping her as your hostage, concentrate on becoming a better man. Go ahead, and ask us, how to become a better men.
I won't tell you until you ask.
P.S. The advice you get from us, is useless to you, because being Don Juan is in your head. You can't fake by doing things or applying techniques, no such thing. Everything we tell you is to transform YOU.
How do i be a better man?djSlvt said:You don't have skills to keep your relationship going. You reek with insecurity. It won't last long unless you change.
You are a beta male at this point in your life. You don't know what to do, you're not a leader. Your relationship will last until she finds a guy that can lead. She'll trade a sissy that don't know what to do for a guy that is confident and knows what he's doing, without giving much thought to it.
The best advice you can possibly get is: DO NOT CONCENTRATE ON YOUR GIRLFRIEND.
Look what you doing, she means soooo much to you, that here you are, trying to learn a thing or two, so that you can KEEP her forever. That is wrong.
You can't keep a person with you forever, that's hostage taking. If she wants you, she'll stay with you, by her own will. Understand?
Instead of concetrating on keeping her as your hostage, concentrate on becoming a better man. Go ahead, and ask us, how to become a better men.
I won't tell you until you ask.
P.S. The advice you get from us, is useless to you, because being Don Juan is in your head. You can't fake by doing things or applying techniques, no such thing. Everything we tell you is to transform YOU.
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the "rules" are the same as if it was October 14th with the moon in the east, the temperature at 56 degrees, tide is in, and slight volcanic activity from the west.inzone50 said:What are the rules here?
She invites you to go hang out with her friends.
Do you get to know them, or steer clear?
By the way its my g/f and we are a couple and more than dating. Its exclusive.
seriously, the "rules" are what you make them... do whatever the heck you wanna do. If you have to take a dump, do you ask the rules first? Trust yourself, believe in yourself, like yourself, get some confidence in yourself.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
djSlvt
Banned
From here, DJ Bible.
Ll Principe
Don Juan
One of the most important unwritten laws in history.