"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Her Friends
- Thread starter inzone50
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
djSlvt
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You are a beta male at this point in your life. You don't know what to do, you're not a leader. Your relationship will last until she finds a guy that can lead. She'll trade a sissy that don't know what to do for a guy that is confident and knows what he's doing, without giving much thought to it.
The best advice you can possibly get is: DO NOT CONCENTRATE ON YOUR GIRLFRIEND.
Look what you doing, she means soooo much to you, that here you are, trying to learn a thing or two, so that you can KEEP her forever. That is wrong.
You can't keep a person with you forever, that's hostage taking. If she wants you, she'll stay with you, by her own will. Understand?
Instead of concetrating on keeping her as your hostage, concentrate on becoming a better man. Go ahead, and ask us, how to become a better men.
I won't tell you until you ask.
P.S. The advice you get from us, is useless to you, because being Don Juan is in your head. You can't fake by doing things or applying techniques, no such thing. Everything we tell you is to transform YOU.
How do i be a better man?djSlvt said:You don't have skills to keep your relationship going. You reek with insecurity. It won't last long unless you change.
You are a beta male at this point in your life. You don't know what to do, you're not a leader. Your relationship will last until she finds a guy that can lead. She'll trade a sissy that don't know what to do for a guy that is confident and knows what he's doing, without giving much thought to it.
The best advice you can possibly get is: DO NOT CONCENTRATE ON YOUR GIRLFRIEND.
Look what you doing, she means soooo much to you, that here you are, trying to learn a thing or two, so that you can KEEP her forever. That is wrong.
You can't keep a person with you forever, that's hostage taking. If she wants you, she'll stay with you, by her own will. Understand?
Instead of concetrating on keeping her as your hostage, concentrate on becoming a better man. Go ahead, and ask us, how to become a better men.
I won't tell you until you ask.
P.S. The advice you get from us, is useless to you, because being Don Juan is in your head. You can't fake by doing things or applying techniques, no such thing. Everything we tell you is to transform YOU.
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the "rules" are the same as if it was October 14th with the moon in the east, the temperature at 56 degrees, tide is in, and slight volcanic activity from the west.inzone50 said:What are the rules here?
She invites you to go hang out with her friends.
Do you get to know them, or steer clear?
By the way its my g/f and we are a couple and more than dating. Its exclusive.
seriously, the "rules" are what you make them... do whatever the heck you wanna do. If you have to take a dump, do you ask the rules first? Trust yourself, believe in yourself, like yourself, get some confidence in yourself.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
djSlvt
Banned
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Ll Principe
Don Juan
One of the most important unwritten laws in history.