"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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her boyfriend is not giving her enough attention can i capitalize?

pete101

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if this HB bf is not giving her enough attention (ie calls texts general talking) can I capitalize somehow?

i know it's a dangerous situation to become friendzoned or orbiter status so I am wary about replacing him for attention purposes while he gets to bang her and me doing all the dirty work.

is he playing it right by not giving her enough attention? i sense she's looking to break up with him. i dont think she's an attention wh0re though (the signs are different from others i've dealt with)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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pete101 said:
if this HB bf is not giving her enough attention (ie calls texts general talking) can I capitalize somehow?

i know it's a dangerous situation to become friendzoned or orbiter status so I am wary about replacing him for attention purposes while he gets to bang her and me doing all the dirty work.

is he playing it right by not giving her enough attention? i sense she's looking to break up with him. i dont think she's an attention wh0re though (the signs are different from others i've dealt with)
Becareful....She may be using u as an emotional tampon....Try being extra sexual with her then u will know the truth...she maybe trying to turn u inot an afc orbitor/emotional tampon....I dont condone cheating....becareful...she may be getting the attnetion she wants out of u but hes the one boning her at the end of the day, and thats why i say becareful u dont want to be that guy who gets playedddd
 

pete101

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j0504s said:
Becareful....She may be using u as an emotional tampon....Try being extra sexual with her then u will know the truth...she maybe trying to turn u inot an afc orbitor/emotional tampon....I dont condone cheating....becareful...she may be getting the attnetion she wants out of u but hes the one boning her at the end of the day, and thats why i say becareful u dont want to be that guy who gets playedddd
yeah i'm aware i may be turned into an emotional tampon. getting the attention from me and getting boned by him. exactly what im concerned about happening.

she thinks i have a gf right now, so if i turn up the sexual stuff she'll think im a sleazebag? im looking to break up with my girl, she knows things aren't going well between us.

if i try to be too sexual before i've broken up with my girl it may backfire, maybe i should just organize a meet up with her.. i dont think she's looking to cheat but i do think she's about to end things with her bf and needs a reason to.
 

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Just go for it. Ask her to get together and then escalate. If she says no then you have your answer. Who cares if she thinks any less of you?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I think you're best off just asking her to get together instead of giving her attention.

I meet a lot of girls with boyfriends and when I find them on Facebook and see their boyfriends I never get the impression that they are incapable of getting primal and totally satisfying the girl. I mean I could be wrong, but women (especially in college) seem to be pretty fickle and this is the impression I get.

I really don't think boyfriends matter, just the way she mentions him. If she uses a name or talks about him endearingly or says "I have a boyfriend" immediately then I think you're out.

Otherwise it's meaningless.
 

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Get sexual and ask out ASAP! Otherwise ditch her, as she might be looking for a new "girlfriend" to b!tch about the boyfriend.
 
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