"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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OnFire

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Question...

It's my girlfriends brithday in a few months, and here's a gift idea:
send out letters to her 10 favorite celeberties (girls & guys), and get them to autograph pictures,wishing her a happy birthday. Out of the 10, the absolute must have would be Justin Timberlake.

Now, from my original standpoint, I know my girl would like this. I mean I'm not really into idalizing celebrities but some people like that stuff. And since I could care less about if she had Timberlake's picture and other celeb guys on her wall or not, i was kinda leaning towards this gift.

But, right before i was about to get going on this, a thought accured to me: Is this kinda gay? I mean is this the things that a DJ would do? I'm thinking this gift might be more suitable for a friend to do, rather then me "her boyfriend".

What do you guys think?
What would you do?
Yay or Nay?
 

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We've been dating like 8 months man. Things are fantastic, she's so cool. She's not expecting this gift or anything. I would still spend the day with her and get her a gift. This would just be something extra.

I'm just wondering, (since i've never dated a girl this long before) if maybe I'm getting a little soft, compared how I used to be.
 

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well, i would spend the day, (not the evening) or vise versa. i think it's fun to tease her, tell her she has a surprise bday gift, and then wait till the evening to give it to her.

also, dont get her something else, that gift is more than enough. her face will light up so much.

so i'd say do that, and spend the evening (or day) with her. make it romantic tho. u might want to take her out to dinner at a nice restaurant, or go somewher that is special to u guys.

8 months- u kinda wanna make her bday special like that, but not go overboard
 
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