“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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her birthday surprise

OnFire

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Question...

It's my girlfriends brithday in a few months, and here's a gift idea:
send out letters to her 10 favorite celeberties (girls & guys), and get them to autograph pictures,wishing her a happy birthday. Out of the 10, the absolute must have would be Justin Timberlake.

Now, from my original standpoint, I know my girl would like this. I mean I'm not really into idalizing celebrities but some people like that stuff. And since I could care less about if she had Timberlake's picture and other celeb guys on her wall or not, i was kinda leaning towards this gift.

But, right before i was about to get going on this, a thought accured to me: Is this kinda gay? I mean is this the things that a DJ would do? I'm thinking this gift might be more suitable for a friend to do, rather then me "her boyfriend".

What do you guys think?
What would you do?
Yay or Nay?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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We've been dating like 8 months man. Things are fantastic, she's so cool. She's not expecting this gift or anything. I would still spend the day with her and get her a gift. This would just be something extra.

I'm just wondering, (since i've never dated a girl this long before) if maybe I'm getting a little soft, compared how I used to be.
 

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well, i would spend the day, (not the evening) or vise versa. i think it's fun to tease her, tell her she has a surprise bday gift, and then wait till the evening to give it to her.

also, dont get her something else, that gift is more than enough. her face will light up so much.

so i'd say do that, and spend the evening (or day) with her. make it romantic tho. u might want to take her out to dinner at a nice restaurant, or go somewher that is special to u guys.

8 months- u kinda wanna make her bday special like that, but not go overboard
 
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