"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Her attraction elsewhere

WhAcKeD!

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Well heres my prob, this may sound a little afc but screw it. Theres this girl Im going after and shes going out with this other guy. Im going to tell you that shes 13 im 16, and no I dont really give a fvck about what you think about the age difference so dont bother posting some lame ass remark about it. Shes been going out with this guy and he seems to always break up with her but they just end up going back out again. Im by no means an ugly guy either (if you want a pic of what I look like then go here ,profile shes even told me that Im hot) Im nice and everything, sweet, whatever you want to call it, but I cant seem to get her attention to me and start liking me. She only looks at me like a friend. So what the hell should I do? Give up and next her? Or just stop talking to her all together. Any tips would be appreciated, thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Haven't seen this posted in a while: Read the Bible.
 

Smooth as Anything

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Won't happen, unless she is a loser.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by WhAcKeD!
what are you saying "unless shes a loser"?
Unpopular.

EDIT: Ohhh, you're 16 and she's 13. I take it back ;)
 

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DAMN UR SO HOT !!!!






















I was not kidding.....lol Just playing, fukk this b1tch......do the forumla.....ur age.....16 divided by 2 = 8 ....+7 = 15, dont go out with a girl who hasnt a hit puberty....sh1t, she probably still in diapers.......Damn, fukk her, and read the bible........
 
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