Educate yourselves people.... especially the " ignorant" ones
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RnBfe9Ox2Tg&feature=channel_page
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RnBfe9Ox2Tg&feature=channel_page
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Hahaha, Really?War Against Betaism said:I swear marijuana is discussed here just as much as dating advice is.
Anyways I've only seen halfway through the first vid but this is some interesting stuff.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
According to this study on webmd.com, seven percent of automobile accidents involve alcohol whereas in three percent of accidents the participants test positive for marijuana. If you notice, I used different terminology for the comparison. Seven percent involve alcohol whereas three percent test positive for marijuana. Testing positive for alcohol, whether by breathalyzer or blood test, means someone drank within any number of hours (depending, of course, on how much they drank). We can be pretty sure their faculties were impaired. But for marijuana, testing positive only means someone smoked pot within ten days, upwards of one or two months for heavy users. Given the breadth of time someone can test positive for marijuana and considering the figure of "only" three percent, the negative effects on marijuana may be orders of magnitude less pronounced than alcohol.Aragon034 said:Imagine driving a car, at night, or on a highway. You KNOW that there are people who'll do it.
The minimum amount of marijuana necessary to cause a fatal* overdose is 40,000 times greater than the amount necessary to get high. I believe it's one-third of your body weight, which for me would translate into 50 pounds of weed. Who can smoke or ingest 50 pounds of weed, much less one pound, much less one ounce, all at once? Is that physically possible, given that you'll pass out into sleep long before it would happen? It wasn't safe for you to drink lots of water since you can die from water poisoning, but rather a drink like Gatorade which replenishes electrolytes, but I never hear about water poisoning in the context of marijuana dangers (i.e. the number of people who annually die from water poisoning in compensation for perceived dehydration from marijuana is presumably nill). I grant some people can die from peripheral activities such as accidents involving heavy machinery, but my point is overdoses are all but theoretically impossible.War Against Betaism said:I can only see marijuana killing people if people seriously smoked WAY too much. I had an instance where I was so frikkin high that I could literally feel any water that I swallow run through my body. No matter how much I drank my body still kept drying up, I seriously thought I was going to die.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.