Educate yourselves people.... especially the " ignorant" ones
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RnBfe9Ox2Tg&feature=channel_page
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RnBfe9Ox2Tg&feature=channel_page
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Hahaha, Really?War Against Betaism said:I swear marijuana is discussed here just as much as dating advice is.
Anyways I've only seen halfway through the first vid but this is some interesting stuff.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
According to this study on webmd.com, seven percent of automobile accidents involve alcohol whereas in three percent of accidents the participants test positive for marijuana. If you notice, I used different terminology for the comparison. Seven percent involve alcohol whereas three percent test positive for marijuana. Testing positive for alcohol, whether by breathalyzer or blood test, means someone drank within any number of hours (depending, of course, on how much they drank). We can be pretty sure their faculties were impaired. But for marijuana, testing positive only means someone smoked pot within ten days, upwards of one or two months for heavy users. Given the breadth of time someone can test positive for marijuana and considering the figure of "only" three percent, the negative effects on marijuana may be orders of magnitude less pronounced than alcohol.Aragon034 said:Imagine driving a car, at night, or on a highway. You KNOW that there are people who'll do it.
The minimum amount of marijuana necessary to cause a fatal* overdose is 40,000 times greater than the amount necessary to get high. I believe it's one-third of your body weight, which for me would translate into 50 pounds of weed. Who can smoke or ingest 50 pounds of weed, much less one pound, much less one ounce, all at once? Is that physically possible, given that you'll pass out into sleep long before it would happen? It wasn't safe for you to drink lots of water since you can die from water poisoning, but rather a drink like Gatorade which replenishes electrolytes, but I never hear about water poisoning in the context of marijuana dangers (i.e. the number of people who annually die from water poisoning in compensation for perceived dehydration from marijuana is presumably nill). I grant some people can die from peripheral activities such as accidents involving heavy machinery, but my point is overdoses are all but theoretically impossible.War Against Betaism said:I can only see marijuana killing people if people seriously smoked WAY too much. I had an instance where I was so frikkin high that I could literally feel any water that I swallow run through my body. No matter how much I drank my body still kept drying up, I seriously thought I was going to die.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.