Educate yourselves people.... especially the " ignorant" ones
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RnBfe9Ox2Tg&feature=channel_page
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RnBfe9Ox2Tg&feature=channel_page
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hahaha, Really?War Against Betaism said:I swear marijuana is discussed here just as much as dating advice is.
Anyways I've only seen halfway through the first vid but this is some interesting stuff.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
According to this study on webmd.com, seven percent of automobile accidents involve alcohol whereas in three percent of accidents the participants test positive for marijuana. If you notice, I used different terminology for the comparison. Seven percent involve alcohol whereas three percent test positive for marijuana. Testing positive for alcohol, whether by breathalyzer or blood test, means someone drank within any number of hours (depending, of course, on how much they drank). We can be pretty sure their faculties were impaired. But for marijuana, testing positive only means someone smoked pot within ten days, upwards of one or two months for heavy users. Given the breadth of time someone can test positive for marijuana and considering the figure of "only" three percent, the negative effects on marijuana may be orders of magnitude less pronounced than alcohol.Aragon034 said:Imagine driving a car, at night, or on a highway. You KNOW that there are people who'll do it.
The minimum amount of marijuana necessary to cause a fatal* overdose is 40,000 times greater than the amount necessary to get high. I believe it's one-third of your body weight, which for me would translate into 50 pounds of weed. Who can smoke or ingest 50 pounds of weed, much less one pound, much less one ounce, all at once? Is that physically possible, given that you'll pass out into sleep long before it would happen? It wasn't safe for you to drink lots of water since you can die from water poisoning, but rather a drink like Gatorade which replenishes electrolytes, but I never hear about water poisoning in the context of marijuana dangers (i.e. the number of people who annually die from water poisoning in compensation for perceived dehydration from marijuana is presumably nill). I grant some people can die from peripheral activities such as accidents involving heavy machinery, but my point is overdoses are all but theoretically impossible.War Against Betaism said:I can only see marijuana killing people if people seriously smoked WAY too much. I had an instance where I was so frikkin high that I could literally feel any water that I swallow run through my body. No matter how much I drank my body still kept drying up, I seriously thought I was going to die.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.