"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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helpp.. need advice..

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Hey everyone.. i recently met this girl on myspace, she is local and my age, veryyy attractive id say atleast hb8 or 9. I know meeting girls online is lame.. so i cut right to the chase with her and told her that id rather skip all the online talking and txting and just meet in person and get to know her better. and she agreed and we made plans to go get something to eat today. Well i just got a txt from her saying that shes not bailing but shes with her g/f rite now and shes bringing her along with us.. which i dont understand why but i guess just incase cuz she did meet me online and everything. she told me to bring a friend with me too, but not of my friends are available right now. I really need some advice on the situation, like how should i act with her friend there..? idk im an afc at heart lol.. some one give me some good advice..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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just go alone

be charming and light heart, funny. talk as 20/80 rules..20% is you and 80% is her. Talk to both find out what they like to do activities. hobbies..etc

Sometime girl need to bring a friend since you she never met you before...also for security reason...

relax and have fun...
 

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good advice... lol im good at pretending like im a don juan... but now that the pressures on 2 hours before the meeting .. im nervous as hell lol
 

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Listen to music that pump you up
on the way to the meeting..talk to anyone, cashier, ask for time, direction, ...etc

You will loosen up ..whistle a favourite song..anything that put you in good mood and good energy....and smile
 
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