Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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helpp.. need advice..

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Hey everyone.. i recently met this girl on myspace, she is local and my age, veryyy attractive id say atleast hb8 or 9. I know meeting girls online is lame.. so i cut right to the chase with her and told her that id rather skip all the online talking and txting and just meet in person and get to know her better. and she agreed and we made plans to go get something to eat today. Well i just got a txt from her saying that shes not bailing but shes with her g/f rite now and shes bringing her along with us.. which i dont understand why but i guess just incase cuz she did meet me online and everything. she told me to bring a friend with me too, but not of my friends are available right now. I really need some advice on the situation, like how should i act with her friend there..? idk im an afc at heart lol.. some one give me some good advice..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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just go alone

be charming and light heart, funny. talk as 20/80 rules..20% is you and 80% is her. Talk to both find out what they like to do activities. hobbies..etc

Sometime girl need to bring a friend since you she never met you before...also for security reason...

relax and have fun...
 

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good advice... lol im good at pretending like im a don juan... but now that the pressures on 2 hours before the meeting .. im nervous as hell lol
 

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Listen to music that pump you up
on the way to the meeting..talk to anyone, cashier, ask for time, direction, ...etc

You will loosen up ..whistle a favourite song..anything that put you in good mood and good energy....and smile
 
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