Does someone know how to guess REAL interest instead of ego-stroke?Deep Dish wrote: A good-looking man experiences some women initially showing interest in him, only to repel away when he shows back interest; she baited him to test her femininity.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Does someone know how to guess REAL interest instead of ego-stroke?Deep Dish wrote: A good-looking man experiences some women initially showing interest in him, only to repel away when he shows back interest; she baited him to test her femininity.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Every woman is more or less an Attention Wh0re. Real A.W. just misleads you for longer periods of time.LegendBoy said:Good question. Which I do not know the answer to.
I mean we could put the girls who do this into the category of "Attention
Wh0re" though a lot of a girls do this..
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She gave validation that was a lie though.THE_ADDMAN said:it sounds ludacris
the woman initially shows interest, so the man shows interest back, and the female feels like she won some validation? well she had to GIVE validation to GET it, so net-gain = zero. yet she feels like she won some great victory.
mrRuckus said:She gave validation that was a lie though.