"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Helping WOMEN to ego-MASTURBATe???

DanelMadr

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Deep Dish wrote: A good-looking man experiences some women initially showing interest in him, only to repel away when he shows back interest; she baited him to test her femininity.
Does someone know how to guess REAL interest instead of ego-stroke?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Good question. Which I do not know the answer to.

I mean we could put the girls who do this into the category of "Attention
Wh0re" though a lot of a girls do this..
 

DanelMadr

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LegendBoy said:
Good question. Which I do not know the answer to.

I mean we could put the girls who do this into the category of "Attention
Wh0re" though a lot of a girls do this..
Every woman is more or less an Attention Wh0re. Real A.W. just misleads you for longer periods of time.

I wrote here about my friend. He is handsome etc..bla blah....and he receives lots of signals, they smile at him, give him dreamy stares but when he bites....you would think he killed their parents or something...plain rejection and made in the very public style :nervous: Awful.
 

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I hate thinking.

I spend that time to perfect my game and take away any chance of anything but genuine interest :up:

Great question though :up:
 

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it sounds ludacris

the woman initially shows interest, so the man shows interest back, and the female feels like she won some validation? well she had to GIVE validation to GET it, so net-gain = zero. yet she feels like she won some great victory.

I tell ya, that gender is so delusional and bizarre that I just have to laugh
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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THE_ADDMAN said:
it sounds ludacris

the woman initially shows interest, so the man shows interest back, and the female feels like she won some validation? well she had to GIVE validation to GET it, so net-gain = zero. yet she feels like she won some great victory.
She gave validation that was a lie though.
 

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mrRuckus said:
She gave validation that was a lie though.

exactly. even if you give validation that is also a lie, she still thinks she won

so you may as well take the same mindset :)
 

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Truch is, imho, is you never know for sure . . .My outlook is to just chance it . . .But the worst ones are theones with boyfriends, and who will tease the attention ot of you . . . .The are the ones that need to be shot . . . :trouble:
 

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Have her do things for you to prove herself. small things, but just to test her compliance. then reward her with attention when she earns it
 
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