"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Helping WOMEN to ego-MASTURBATe???

DanelMadr

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Deep Dish wrote: A good-looking man experiences some women initially showing interest in him, only to repel away when he shows back interest; she baited him to test her femininity.
Does someone know how to guess REAL interest instead of ego-stroke?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Good question. Which I do not know the answer to.

I mean we could put the girls who do this into the category of "Attention
Wh0re" though a lot of a girls do this..
 

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LegendBoy said:
Good question. Which I do not know the answer to.

I mean we could put the girls who do this into the category of "Attention
Wh0re" though a lot of a girls do this..
Every woman is more or less an Attention Wh0re. Real A.W. just misleads you for longer periods of time.

I wrote here about my friend. He is handsome etc..bla blah....and he receives lots of signals, they smile at him, give him dreamy stares but when he bites....you would think he killed their parents or something...plain rejection and made in the very public style :nervous: Awful.
 

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I hate thinking.

I spend that time to perfect my game and take away any chance of anything but genuine interest :up:

Great question though :up:
 

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it sounds ludacris

the woman initially shows interest, so the man shows interest back, and the female feels like she won some validation? well she had to GIVE validation to GET it, so net-gain = zero. yet she feels like she won some great victory.

I tell ya, that gender is so delusional and bizarre that I just have to laugh
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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THE_ADDMAN said:
it sounds ludacris

the woman initially shows interest, so the man shows interest back, and the female feels like she won some validation? well she had to GIVE validation to GET it, so net-gain = zero. yet she feels like she won some great victory.
She gave validation that was a lie though.
 

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mrRuckus said:
She gave validation that was a lie though.

exactly. even if you give validation that is also a lie, she still thinks she won

so you may as well take the same mindset :)
 

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Truch is, imho, is you never know for sure . . .My outlook is to just chance it . . .But the worst ones are theones with boyfriends, and who will tease the attention ot of you . . . .The are the ones that need to be shot . . . :trouble:
 

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Have her do things for you to prove herself. small things, but just to test her compliance. then reward her with attention when she earns it
 
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