"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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big_jeffry

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experts say that if you visualize yourself achieving certain goals, there is a great chance that you will do it, because you are being positive. AFC's who have a low self esteem or see themselves as ugly or can never find the right woman, these things seem to reappear all their lifetime. So, visualizing sucess, confidence, other dj skills done correctly is a must for any aspiring dj.
Doesn't this just make sense?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yes it does. I visualize all the time even in my sleep and yep it works.
 

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Im sure it does work but I never really bothered with it.
 

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Yep!

Check out some of pook's classic bible posts: he describes the importance of imagining yourself to be "The Great Catch" that all of the girls dream of. This way you will have confidence in yourself (Though it takes time), you will be much less likely to fail, and if you do, you will not be devastated by it. Instead you will figure "Hey, I can do better anyway. I am The Great Catch!"
 

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I find it's better to visualizein the short term. Imagining yourself in a sleek mustang with huge muscles and tons of friends is all well and good, but you need to work for those goals. So, instead, visualize yourself working out hard that day as soon as you wake up. Visualize yourself looking for a job that day. Visualize yourself meeting a new person that day.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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