Help!!!

[drydupfob]

Hey guys, I'v been lurking this site for a while now and I have learned so much about girls and how to deal with them in genernal.

But anyways here's my situation. I have this "friend", we'v been pretty close for a while now. Everytime we hang out, it gets really touchy and flirty stuff like that.

She got a bf 2 or 3 month ago, and ever since than I'v gotten to like her alot more. Like I wasn't really interested before, although im pretty sure im not on the friend ladder. But ever since she's gotten a bf....

Anyways I took her to the beach on thurseday, it was really good. We had great kino and "deep conversations" **** like that. Kissed her on the forehead couple of times, she seemed to like it.

so my question is what to do now? Should I just treat her as a normal dating relationship or with more causion? I'm normally not the kind of guy that likes to take other people's girl away, but something about her intrigues me.

O and a lil back ground im 19, just finished my first year of college. She's 18 just graduated highschool. Her bf's a 3rd year in college, But i really dont' see him as a threat.

thx for reading. and please give me some feedback

 

[HeartlessBtch]

Originally posted by drydupfob
She got a bf 2 or 3 month ago, and ever since than I'v gotten to like her alot more. Like I wasn't really interested before, although im pretty sure im not on the friend ladder. But ever since she's gotten a bf....

RED FLAGS ALERT

1. U didn't like her before and all of a sudden an interest has sparked. YOU want her becasue she's taken and inside your brain you just wants to test and see if u can get her

2. You are on the friend ladder buddy since she's gota bf now

3. like i tell all the guys. Why would you want a girls whos taken? you take her away and chances are that when she finds someone better than you she'll do the same, betray you.

 

[themanwithnoname]

i too don't understand why guys go after girls that are already taken, you're just giving her the extra attention to validate herself as a person and she'll dispose of you once you get too serious.

 

[drydupfob]

Even if she has a bf that does not mean im on the friend ladder. I think I have played my cards pretty well hence, hence she is always the one that calls or aims me.

And to answer your question, ya its for my own sick ego.

So please people help me out

 

[HeartlessBtch]

Originally posted by drydupfob
Even if she has a bf that does not mean im on the friend ladder. I think I have played my cards pretty well hence, hence she is always the one that calls or aims me.

And to answer your question, ya its for my own sick ego.

So please people help me out

Originally posted by drydupfob
Even if she has a bf that does not mean im on the friend ladder. I think I have played my cards pretty well hence, hence she is always the one that calls or aims me.

And to answer your question, ya its for my own sick ego.

So please people help me out

Gosh...I just hope you don't bang your head against the wall for this one...here you go:

-She needs to see that you have something better to offer than her current b.f, so go ahead and try to do so.
-Dont be a lapdog, do not give her everything because she'll get bored and it'll be no chalenge plus she'll get bored easily
-Don't give her too much attention and please do not get or try to get serious with her. As I have said before, girls who two time or leave their bfs for other guys are not worthy of a relationship

 

[drydupfob]

Hey thx for the advice guys, ya im not really looking for anything serious. I kinda just want a summer fling, and the fact that she's taken makes it interesting.

 

[Morphiex]

ur in it for the chase and shes in it cuz ur becoming her emotional tampong....

 

[Lost In Translation]

what you doing kissing her on the forehead ?

you have bad aim ?


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