"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey I'm on the phone right now wuth the girl that i'm talking to. She just asked me did i go to the movies in the place where i just moved from. I told her yes and i asked her if she wanted to go to the movies with me tomarrow because my dad and mom are going out twith my uncle and aunt. She said yes but i wanted to know if me and her should go out are is it too soon. Let me tell you somehing. The first time i saw her we didn't say 10 words to each other. But she called me and now we are chatting it up real nice i wanted to know if i'm doing this right, and if i should go out with her tomarrow.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Please....Read the bible....

And trust yourself to make small decisions like this.

-peace-
 

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I'm in the first week of boot camp amd thats alot of reading i'l try but now i need help for the moment.
 

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whenever your in these situations always remember that its better to go for it and lose compared to regretting that you didn't go for it.
 

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Thanks for the advice but we had n o rid4e so we didn't go. But we are talking about the first time we meet each other and she told me that she thought we would make good friends but then she said that when we got each other's # that mabey we could get to know each other better. But i don't know how to ask her where we stand in the terms as relationship ise.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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VIVAlasVEGASBaby

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Don't rush into it. Hang out with her a few times, see if like "her", and then you might consider a relationship. Don't ask or mention anything about a relationship for a while; this will just kill the mystery/challenge. Calm down and be patient. Tell us how your first date goes and we'll help you from there.
 

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O.k I'll do that. I'll most likely be telling you something on it next saturday or sunday because that is when we are planning to go to the movie since we didn't have a ride. Thanks
 
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